thanks dave for the tip!!! It actually worked, of course before I even tired it i burnt all the footage to dvd, just in case it did chew my tape.
I am so relieved, I was sitting here trying to get creative and think of ways to hide it, but now i don't have to! *sigh* .. I love this forum, what would I do without you guys!!

Now i'm off to figure out my song selections, shes giving me complete freedom to choose what i think is best, but she does listen to country so i might try to find a good country love song. I can't edit until I have a song, because I have to make everything go along with the song, so editing beforeand would be pointless for me!

thanks again!