http://img83.imageshack.us/img83/6787/untitled1copy1gs.jpg

how do a show my video online with that look? i'm completely clueless

That's a flash video interface. You can create your own looks for the interface with Flash Video Files.

It is possible to create custom skins for the Windows Media player embedded on a Web page. See Creating Custom Skins for the New Windows Media Player 7 (http://msdn.microsoft.com/library/default.asp?url=/library/en-us/dnwmt/html/creating_custom_skins_for_the_new_windows_media_player_7__uspp.asp).

I believe you can also create custom skins for the Quicktime player using QuickTime Pro, although I've never tried. Look at the help files.

I use a program on the Mac called Tattoo to do the interfaces on the QT movies on our web site (http://cartermedia.tv/portfolio.shtml).