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Adrian Tan
March 27th, 2014, 05:05 PM
Just curious whether anyone does this.

I never have.

But given that he often says something during the ceremony, wouldn't it be better to get that audio?

Noa Put
March 27th, 2014, 05:22 PM
I just tape a yamaha c24 onto the mikes handle, works for everyone who speeches, men or woman and audio quality is more then fine.

Don Bloom
March 27th, 2014, 05:25 PM
Nope, no reason to. Adrian, if you keep mic'ing people up you're gonna need a audio guy with a 12 channel mixer on his chest. Remember, you're not shooting a feature film. ;-)

Adrian Tan
March 27th, 2014, 05:34 PM
By the way, have people seen this pocket recorder?

'Little DARling' from juicedLink is a Set-It & Forget-It Mini Audio Recorder for Lav Mics No Film School (http://nofilmschool.com/2014/03/juicedlink-little-darling-dar-mini-audio-recorder/)

The main interesting feature seems to be "audio bracketing" -- it records a second track at a lower volume in case of peaking.

I'm pretty tempted, if the price is right, to just turn up to weddings with a bag full. "Everyone, here, take a mic! Let's have a mic party! Mics all around!"

Roger Gunkel
March 27th, 2014, 06:27 PM
Nope, no reason to. Adrian, if you keep mic'ing people up you're gonna need a audio guy with a 12 channel mixer on his chest. Remember, you're not shooting a feature film. ;-)

+1 Don.
The more you add on to wedding filming, be it more cameras, more sound recorders, more crew, what you are ending up with is MORE work. A lot more quite often, and as likely as not for the same price as before.

I spent years filming weddings with one camera and a remote mic plugged in and never had any client complaints. I used to edit the next day and deliver the same week. Now it requires multi camera editing and multi audio dubbing but the profits don't seem to be any bigger.

Roger

Robert Benda
March 27th, 2014, 06:38 PM
if you're hoping her dad will say something, then why not her mom, his mom, and his dad? What about the Best Man and Maid of Honor?

Chris Harding
March 27th, 2014, 06:58 PM
Right on Roger!

Even people here will say to me, you work on your own, no assistant?? Things are getting way to complex Adrian so please don't make them more complex otherwise soon you will need Don's semi-trailer service to get to a wedding!!

Already people are crying about small profits but will have 3 cameras and an assistant for each. All my weddings are 2 cams and a GoPro and just a mic on the groom .. and yes I always get Dad if he does say anything ... I'll drop a second lav and transmitter on the lectern if it's a Church wedding.

Receptions for me are always just one camera (except speeches) so much the same as Roger! Why get over complicated especially with lots of camera people, and overuse of gear. AS a priest said to me last weekend "You are recording the ceremony, you are not part of it" and having 3 videographers all over the Church seems a bit intrusive surely. when one could do?

Chris

Don Bloom
March 27th, 2014, 08:37 PM
I didn't start using multiple cameras until somewhere around 2000. Until then I was using a full size cam the last being the JVC X2s and if you recall those, they were expensive and I couldn't afford more than 1. I used 1 audio system and frankly I should have stuck to 1 camera and 1 audio system. the more you use the more work, the more work the more hours, the more hours the less money because at least around here, the price of the work (I'm speaking weddings) didn't go up in proportion to the gear used. BTW, I've got a semi I'm looking to sell. (that's a joke BTW)
Honestly, I found that for my doc style weddings 2 cameras and 2 audio systems worked just fine. I always had a safety shot to go to if needed, I had audio at the ceremony that worked out just fine and the gear wasn't that ungainly to pack and carry. Especially when I used 2 small form factor cams. (Sony PD series)

You need to think about this. Would adding whatever I'm thinking about adding really make that much of a difference and make my work stand out that much more from the other guys work that I can justify charging more for my effort? This is in conjunction with the other threads about pricing and making more money. BTW, let me express my opinion here about making money in the wedding business. Will you get rich? Depends on your idea of rich, but keep one thing in mind. Regardless of whether you are doing video, photo, DJ, photobooth, working as a planner or whatever, your income is based solely on what YOU can do. IOW, you want to earn more money, then you need to do more work. Unless you feel you want to hire others and book multiple jobs every weekend, hire extra editors, and put up with the headaches of running that model of business. I know a lot of people that have that and they are all envious of the good old days when they did a limited number of weddings but didn't have the headaches that go with a big box type business that does 300+ weddings a year.
As a boutique type business you are going to earn X amount and that's about it. Now I'm not saying that you can't earn a really good living, I have. I earned enough over my years to have (in no particular order) a decent place to live, decent cars, nice vacations, raise 3 kids that turned out just fine, decent equipment and a fair retirement package of which I am taking some advantage of. Rich? Nope. I personally know people that could pretty much fix the deficit of the state I live in, and have plenty left over but I can't complain. I've earned a good living and had some fun doing it. What more can you ask for.
Go light, try using the least amount of gear to produce a great product, I know it can be done. You'll have less stress and make more money and oh yeah, more time to spend doing the things that are not video related that mean something to you.
End of sermon. Go forth, make video!

Roger Gunkel
March 28th, 2014, 04:51 AM
Another great post from Don, which got me thinking about the whole way wedding video seems to be heading.

The industry seems to gradually being taken over by frustrated film makers, who want perfect sound, filmic and cinematic style and music for emotion. This involves multi cameras, sometimes multi operators, multiple sound recorders, loads of ancillary equipment and hours of editing. The thing is, are the couple getting what they actually want or are they buying what is available?

Adrian's question about micing up the Bride's Father prompts the question WHY? I filmed a wedding recently in Ely Cathedral in January, one of the biggest and oldest in the UK. The cathedral had about a 3 second reverb time and every sound wafted and drifted around the vaulted arches and huge chamber. The officiant had a radio mic and there was one on the lectern for a reader. the PA speakers were suspended high up and I have no idea where the sound system itself was.

The whole point of how I work, is to enable the couple to see their wedding day the way that it actually was and the way that others saw it. I could have tried to attach a recorder to the cathedral sound system, and put a recorder on the officiant and each of the main wedding party. The point I am making here though is that the sound of the voices, choir and organ in the cathedral was magnificent, that it the way it was and that was what what I wanted to capture. I put a recorder on the groom to be able to hear their vows, but why try to change the natural sound swirling around 1000 years of history.

What about multi cameras? I work very quickly with one manned camera one locked off and sometimes a GoPro. I know exactly what each one is filming and only use the two fixed ones for ceremony and sometimes speeches. Even so, it still requires more editing time. Multi operators would seem to be a pain in the a** for a wedding as you could never be sure what the other operators were taking and whether it was the shot you would have liked. Also in my experience, working with other operators can lead to a false sense of security when you feel that there is always another camera with a backup shot should you need it. The trouble is, it seems that quite frequently, the other operator/s were also changing their shot at exactly the same time as you and you all missed the same bit. When you are on your own, that just doesn't happen.

Of course, when it comes to editing, you have then got to trawl through every camera shot to work out when in the sequence of events each operator took their various shots, which can become a logistical nightmare. Frequently it seems to me that the more cameras and sound recorders that are used, the less important the output from each one seems to be, with the thought that one of the cameras and recorders would have got the shot somewhere. To me, that is FILMING BY NUMBERS. Little subtlety or skill necessary, more picking the appropriately numbered camera to go in the numbered timeline box.

Of course all this has absolutely no relation to real film making where every movement is storyboarded and rehearsed and each camera and sound operator carefully directed. That's before we even look at the lighting rigs, specialist mics and audio gear, set preparation and continuity.

There is space for every type of wedding video offering, but I think that sometimes, the video producer can get lost in the search for what they see as technical excellence at the expense of capturing what really happened and replacing it with a sanitised, shortened and artificially enhanced piece of cinema.

Roger

Chris Harding
March 28th, 2014, 05:12 AM
Hi Roger

Well said and I also feel that a lot of self-titled cinematographers/film-makers are setting unreasonable goals for wedding video simply because that's what they think will impress the bride and more often than not is hardly what the bride even wants ... Sure, it might satisfy their own standards but are we not running a business and in that business surely we should supply what the bride wants not what we give her cos we like it!

Like you I was also a muso (keyboards and later bass) and when we did a gig we often used to put particular songs in our sets because we liked them and played them well ...never mind what the people on the dance floor wanted ..we liked the songs and of course, quite often, the floor quickly emptied and we were mystified ..these were our "best" songs so what was wrong with people??

I shoot straight forward doc style purely because the bride wants coverage of her day and in my opinion that gives her the best result. OK, it's not very creative for me and I'd probably love to rush around most of the wedding with my vest and stedicam doing mind boggling moves BUT that wouldn't be an accurate portrayal of the day would it??

We admittedly look at shallow focus shots as very creative but a bride might be puzzled as to why her new hubby's face is blurry?? She knows nothing about resolution, contrast, slick camera moves and no offence but I doubt whether she can even spell cinematographer .. whty? because she doesn't have to! She wants to look pretty, the guys must look handsome, the pink bridesmaid's dresses must look pink and she expects a sharp picture and clear audio.

We really need to embrace this simplicity because it makes editing so much easier and we finish faster and make more money ... if we have creative energy by all means unleash it in small doses BUT you don't need to have 3 extra shooters to achieve it.

Maybe if we listen to what brides want instead of telling them what they are going to get, our task will be far less of a burden?

Chris

Don Bloom
March 28th, 2014, 05:55 AM
Roger, Chris...We are dinosaurs! ;-) But we've made our mark and I don't think any of us are looking to change much.
There is a big big market even here in the states and remember I'm in the 3rd largest market in the USA that prefer and want doc style. While it may not pay quite as well as other styles, it pays the bills and I don't have to sit there for 60 hours editing so my dollar per hour is pretty decent. The real point though is what I've been saying for years. Give the couple solid stable, well composed, properly exposed footage with really good audio, authored in a sensible manner so they can see their day and they are happy.
I'm sure you both remember in camera edits on the VHS. Hand them the finished product at the end of the day. Did you ever have people calling you back and saying you missed this or that? Probably not.
Maybe we can't keep up with the young ones ;-) but I promise we have less headaches and at our junction of life today, I know I want simple and I'll be you guys do too.
See we've got AUS, UK and USA here and well all agree. Video for world peace! ;-)

Chris Harding
March 28th, 2014, 06:59 AM
Amen to that too Don!

I miss the convenience of the full VHS days!! I used to put a tape in the camera and then film the wedding invitation as a start title. Then off to the wedding and shoot carefully in sequence (yep just one camera) and at the end you eject the tape (already with labels on it and hand it to the bride and hold your hand out for your money. No editing at all but my Panasonics did have some in camera dissolves and wipes (M10 Standard VHS) that I could also use. Now that was efficient shooting apart from the horrible low res BUT the bride got the original tape so she got best quality possible!!

Then came linear editing, two VHS or UMatic machines and lot's of cursing and swearing and from then I think we started to go downhill!!!

Chris

Dave Partington
March 28th, 2014, 07:22 AM
Then came linear editing, two VHS or UMatic machines and lot's of cursing and swearing and from then I think we started to go downhill!!!

Chris

Now suppose you 'could' go back to one camera, one tape hand it over at the end of the night, how much less would you now be charging? This is the thing I see with some local people charging pennies (actually £95 all day), they say you get the tape at the end of the night - done. That's the ultimate 'same-day-(non)-edit" and unfortunately you don't have a copy of what you did in case they complain about not being able to hear the vows or speeches etc, just like it used to be!

Chris Harding
March 28th, 2014, 07:30 AM
Hey Dave

and I could also pour boiling water on my hand!! but it's not going to happen... linear editing was a pain but with cards and NLE's things are great now of course. It was just fighting two really bad attitude recorders that used to frustrate me.

Do people seriously give the bride recorded media on the night ?? MiniDV or VHS is obviously out as they couldn't play it ..I guess a DVD camcorder might work IF they are still available ... I haven't seen them here for ages.

Chris

Robert Benda
March 28th, 2014, 07:41 AM
The whole point of how I work, is to enable the couple to see their wedding day the way that it actually was and the way that others saw it.

Ahh, but that's not entirely true, is it? You put a recorder on the groom so that you could hear the vows, for instance. We've all been in a spot where guests couldn't hear the vows at all, or some baby or coughing uncle was making noise and we'd never actually tolerate that in the video.

So what we're really talking about is degrees of non-reality.

For instance, I'm not a fan of going completely crazy into the cinematics, though I do like having 2nd and 3rd cameras for closeups of the B&G during vows and 1st dance.

Incidentally, I understand keeping it simple, but sorting those multi-cam files into order of events is easy. You just have to make sure the date/time stamp on your cameras is correct. Then, once on your computer (I label them camera A, B, and C), you sort by the time stamp.

Don Bloom
March 28th, 2014, 08:02 AM
Lineal edit? I'd just as soon stick a fork in my eye! Yep one camera, one audio source. You what that did? Taught one how to shoot and not depend on having multiple cams and audio even when you did have it.

As for going back to basics, I'm not advocating going back to 1 camera with an in camera edit. I think a lot of the newer folks around wouldn't be able to do that only because they've become dependent on multiple cameras. OK that's fair, but what I am saying is that when one goes to the other extreme, it can cause as many challenges with the client as only shooting one camera and having to dance around to get a respectable finished product.
I too believe today that 2 or even 3 cameras at a ceremony especially is a good thing to do and 2 audio sources is a good thing to do. I've done that at ceremonies and receptions for a long time but at a point there has to be a line in the sand so to speak. It becomes so redundant that there is no further benefit to more cameras or audio sources, then it becomes more time to load in, edit, match the looks since very few have multiple cameras that are the same, so it's more time that equals more money or actually less money per hour and finally it gives the client more chances to find something wrong.
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Robert Benda
March 28th, 2014, 08:14 AM
Now that I can agree with, Don.

I do like some 'cinematic' elements when doing establishing shots, for instance, but when it comes to the main event, I'm a bigger fan of simple though effective.

Dave Partington
March 28th, 2014, 08:15 AM
Hey Dave

and I could also pour boiling water on my hand!! but it's not going to happen... linear editing was a pain but with cards and NLE's things are great now of course. It was just fighting two really bad attitude recorders that used to frustrate me.

Do people seriously give the bride recorded media on the night ?? MiniDV or VHS is obviously out as they couldn't play it ..I guess a DVD camcorder might work IF they are still available ... I haven't seen them here for ages.

Chris

I'm with you 100% - there's no way I want to do it - just wondered (for giggles really) how much you thought you'd be charging!

Yes, DVD camcorders are what they are using. No edit capability, just finalise the disc at the end of the day - hopping that it actually recorded and didn't screw up and - oh BTW Mr & Mrs XYZ, did you know I couldn't actually capture everything because I ran out of disc space and didn't notice? Yes, I've heard of that happening!

Getting really tired of these low ball people, but I'm telling myself that the people who booked them wouldn't actually have booked me (at my prices) anyway, so it's not a sale I lost as such, but what is does is two things:

1) The more people have video and show their friends, the more people have video in mind when getting married

but unfortunately.....

2) if the quality is crap then it may put some people off having a video at all

You could argue that having seen how bad the cheap guys are they'd be looking for something higher quality, but if they don't realise how bad it is compared to what 'could' be done, since it's probably as good as they'd get on their iPhone, maybe they'll just keep the cheap guy going with his pocket money. Who knows? I wish I knew the answer.

Roger Gunkel
March 28th, 2014, 08:19 AM
Ahh, but that's not entirely true, is it? You put a recorder on the groom so that you could hear the vows, for instance. We've all been in a spot where guests couldn't hear the vows at all, or some baby or coughing uncle was making noise and we'd never actually tolerate that in the video.

So what we're really talking about is degrees of non-reality.

For instance, I'm not a fan of going completely crazy into the cinematics, though I do like having 2nd and 3rd cameras for closeups of the B&G during vows and 1st dance.

Incidentally, I understand keeping it simple, but sorting those multi-cam files into order of events is easy. You just have to make sure the date/time stamp on your cameras is correct. Then, once on your computer (I label them camera A, B, and C), you sort by the time stamp.

Yes you are quite right about the guests not hearing the vows, but then I am not making the video for the guests, I am making it for the couple and they of course heard their vows. As for the sounds of a baby crying, Grandad farting or other noises, unlike you not tolerating them, I find that they are exactly the sort of things that they do want to hear and make them laugh. The baby crying may well be their own that they want to hear.

I also didn't say that sorting multi camera clips isn't easy, I said that it is a logistical nightmare. I do many multi camera shoots with up to 6 cameras and have done for 30 years, so am very aware of the procedures.

When you have one camera filming the ceremony, you edit it by letting it run through, that's it. Basically you film what you want to use. With a second camera locked off, you just simply sync the audio and again let them run, editing from one camera to the other, which ever gives the shot you want. When you are using multi cameras and operators who are taking various shots of different lengths, you then have to log each one to know where they fit into the linear length of the ceremony. It's not difficult, but it is time consuming and time is money!

My concern is less about choice of cinematic style, dof and other trendy effects, but about multi cameras and recorders being more about not missing the shot and having a different angle, rather than the skill and craftsmanship of the cameraman. Lots of cameras don't give the answers, as you well know from one of your other threads, it is the individual's skills that give great results.

Roger

Adrian Tan
March 29th, 2014, 05:48 PM
I was once at a Jewish ceremony, and micing up the groom. The rabbi approaches and says, "Are you sure you want to put a microphone on him? The groom says all of six words." I reply, "But they're important words, right?" The father of the groom chuckles, and the rabbi smiles. "Yes, that's true. They are important words."

Thinking about it afterwards, it seemed to me that, unwittingly, there was some sort of Jewish humour/rabbinical repartee aspect to my reply.

In Catholic ceremonies, well, the father of the bride doesn't say very much either, but maybe the little he does say, all of two words, are important, and likely to be spoken in a natural voice, without any amplification. Priest: "Who gives this woman away?" Father of the bride says, "I do".

In the scheme of things, obviously it doesn't matter so much, but maybe those two words could be used to good effect in a highlights or short film video. So I think I actually will try it on at the next wedding. I've got recorders to spare anyway...

Chris Harding
March 29th, 2014, 07:03 PM
In our Catholic ceremonies the father walks right up to the groom with his new bride and the priest will ask the question. The father of course is standing directly opposite the groom who has a mic so no issues there at all.

Yeah Coptic ceremonies have the couple say nothing and our Greek weddings here also have not one word uttered during the ceremony but the priest is always happy to wear the mic that usually goes on the groom.

Chris