View Full Version : Rest In Peace, Violet - 1995/7 - 2009


Meryem Ersoz
March 6th, 2009, 11:44 AM
I always think of Violet as the ultimate UWOLer, who loves romping around the planet, sucking up the Earth vibe. In some ways, she is the inspiration for this contest. For her entire life, she stood, quite simply, for getting out there.

Whether it was doing laps up and down a mountainside as a young dog or sitting quietly in the park watching kids play and sniffing the breeze towards the end of her days, her happiness in being out there in the world was constantly evident.

Each and every day, she reminded to me to get out of my head, let go, and step into the wonder and the magnificence of planet Earth. So, in some ways, this contest which has spread across so many corners of the world is a product of her influence in my life. The joy she felt in being in the world is something that I have hoped to spread among all of you, in some small way.

Adventurer, shooting partner, cinema star, sweet angel, stalwart heart, perpetual puppy, best friend,

I will hold you in my heart and love you forever. Best dog in the world.

http://www.uwolchallenge.com/challenge5/MCE_UC5_prairie.mov (for the theme MAMMALS)

http://ia300131.us.archive.org/2/items/planetEproductionsincdirMErsoz_13/AllGoodDogsWideScreen.mov

Bruce Foreman
March 6th, 2009, 12:11 PM
Please accept my condolences on the loss of your special friend and companion. James Herriot in his writing mentions how short their lives are, yet remembering that dogs live in the "now", you can take comfort in the fact that the things you describe indicate her life was full of good, that she played and explored, doing all the things they just plain enjoy doing.

And that in her own way she lived her "dog life" to the hilt.

I am "dogless" right now but my neighbor across the street has a Boston Terrier that has become a friend to me to an amazing degree without taking anything away from his special bond with his owner.

"Ace" has taught me a lot about the companionship dogs give us that I think I had forgotten. I sit him on some weekends when his owner cannot take him along. He has his own bed here in my house and knows our routine as well as his own at home. Almost the most obedient I have ever seen he is a perfect guest when we keep him.

He also can play like very few other critters I have seen.

The day will come when you will take on another who will not be able to fill Violet's "paws" but who will make their own place in your heart.

God bless you.

Bruce Foreman

Jeff Hendricks
March 6th, 2009, 01:54 PM
Meryem,

I am deeply saddened by your loss...my thoughts are with you and Violet.

Even though I am many miles away, let me know if there is anything I can do for you.

Jeff

Lorinda Norton
March 6th, 2009, 01:59 PM
I'm sorry the day had to come, Meryem. You have my deepest sympathy.

Finn-Erik Faale
March 6th, 2009, 02:31 PM
I feel sorry about your loss. It is hard to loose a close friend.

You have made a fine remembrance for Violet.
It is easy to see; she had a good "dog life".

Finn-Erik

Trond Saetre
March 6th, 2009, 03:33 PM
Hi Meryem,

Sorry to hear about the loss of your dog.
I know how close family members dogs are.
And it is always very hard when they pass away.


Trond

Kevin Railsback
March 6th, 2009, 03:50 PM
Meryem,

So sorry to hear the news about Violet.

I'm sure you've read this many times but I know it always gives me comfort at times like this.

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Author unknown...

Meryem Ersoz
March 6th, 2009, 04:29 PM
Thanks to my DVinfo/UWOL friends for all the loving kindness...

I know there are many doggie people among our community who understand what it means to lose your soul dog...

Chris Hurd
March 6th, 2009, 04:31 PM
Having gone through this myself just eleven months ago, I know all too well how you're feeling. Best wishes for peaceful moments and fond memories of your beloved companion. Hope to see you in person soon.

Pete Bauer
March 7th, 2009, 06:24 AM
Meryem, please accept my deepest sympathies. Every love is unique and their is none quite like the bond between our beloved dogs and us. Cherish all the many happy memories.

Bob Thieda
March 7th, 2009, 08:52 AM
Meryem, very sad news indeed.
I'm very sorry for your loss, and for the loss of everyone that knew Violet.

Having been through it a few times myself, I understand the pain when they leave us, but I will always have a dog in my life. They give us everything and ask for nothing...Dogs are truly a gift from God.

Remember the good times and be proud of the good life you gave her.

Bob

Bryce Comer
March 7th, 2009, 09:13 AM
Meryem,
My condolences on the loss of your best friend.
I don't know who wrote the following piece but i find it very comforting, especially after having lost a loved one.

When I die
Will you be sad that I have gone
& that our friendship has ended
That our talking is over
That we have parted?
Remember me.

When I die
Will you be glad that I have lived
Glad that we met
Glad that we enjoyed so much?
Remember me.

When I die
I leave you love & the sea
Friendship & the loveliness of the world
I bequeath to you - the living
All joy & all sorrow
Have courage always
& sometimes - sometimes
Remember me.

I loved the remembrance you made for Violet, it is a great way to remember her in life.
All the best,
Bryce

Geir Inge
March 7th, 2009, 01:02 PM
Meryem
Please accept my condolences on the loss of your best friend, Violet, The ultimate UWOLer.
Geir Inge.

Kevin Railsback
March 7th, 2009, 02:47 PM
Just saw this sign posted outside my vets office when I drove by this morning...

Dogs are not our whole life but they make our life whole.

There's certainly a lot of truth in that.

Paul Mailath
March 7th, 2009, 08:02 PM
I share your sorrow Meryem, We recently lost our dog and it leaves a big hole for a long while - is there any living thing that represents unconditional love better than a dog?

Chris Swanberg
March 8th, 2009, 07:17 PM
Meryem...my deepest sympathies and condolences.

It has all been said above. Dogs love us unconditionally. In their brief, bright time on earth the special ones like your Violet infuse us with validation and acceptance, joy, warmth and a love few other creatures can show so easily.

They touch our souls in ways that mark us permanently. May you always rejoice in the Violet marks in your being.

Chris

Per Johan Naesje
March 9th, 2009, 04:09 AM
Meryem,
my deepest sympathy for your loss. I know your feelings right now, as I have been going trough the same a couple of times in my life!

Ruth Happel
March 9th, 2009, 03:01 PM
Meryem,

I'm really sorry to hear about losing Violet. It is SO hard. We lost Decker, another UWOLer, just over a year ago, and "replaced" him last August with his cousin, Siggy. It isn't the same, but I can't imagine being without a dog for long. I hope, in time, you can find another canine companion to share your outdoor explorations.

Ruth

Meryem Ersoz
March 10th, 2009, 08:16 AM
I've been through this before as well. It's just that there are pets...and then there are pets. V-dog was one of those special ones. Someone once referred to her as a "unicorn" because she had such a sweet and angelic vibe. An oddly apt description.

Thanks for all of your kindness and understanding. I ran away for the weekend, and that seemed to help.

I guess it is time to start a short-form contest sign-up soon! Back to our regularly scheduled program.

Dale Guthormsen
March 10th, 2009, 05:03 PM
Meryem,

What a great dog gives to ones soul is far greater than what they take when they leave!!! It still hurts.

And of course, they make room for another to eat their way into our souls and start a new era of adventures.




Dale

Dylan Couper
March 11th, 2009, 10:34 AM
Hey Meryem, sorry to hear about your loss. A good dog really is family.

Catherine Russell
March 13th, 2009, 01:42 PM
Oh Meryem:

I'm so sorry. But it's bitter sweet too! You gave each other your all in love. There is something deep about the death of our beloved animals. Animals are so darn loving, loyal, joyful, stoic and never complain in pain or in death. We have so much to learn from them!

May you have good grief at this time. The kind of grief that is filled with love and good memories but not despairing. Violet would never want that!

No wonder UWOL is what it is if she is the inspiration that founded it.

Love to you both,

Cat

Meryem Ersoz
March 13th, 2009, 04:07 PM
thanks again, friends, for your understanding expressions. i have felt very sad all week, but all of your kindnesses really help. dale, you have a lot of wisdom about dogs.

Chris needs a "dogs of DVinfo" pin-up calendar, since we're all such suckers for the fur people....

Mike Beckett
March 14th, 2009, 06:14 AM
Belated condolences, Meryem, from this part-time UWOLer.

The love of a dog is special and unique, and you certainly had a very special one in Violet, and can give thanks for all the love and happiness that she brought.

A line from a song comes to mind, where the topic is life and death, and how you should live for the moment and be grateful for your lot in life: "....the only thing to be sad about, are the dogs and the horses we have to outlive..."

Virtual hugs.

Richard Andrewski
March 15th, 2009, 04:37 PM
Meryem,

My condolences as well. That's just terrible when this happens--she looked like a beautiful dog too. I lost my dog "Wolf" around this time 3 years ago and still think about him quite often.