Okay , I have searched and searched to no avail. I am looking for a pre-built flv player for my website. i would like it to load from an xml page so you can select what you want to watch and people can grab the rss feed.

something like this (http://www.gotoandlearn.com/). and yes i know that is a tutorial site to teach you how to build one for yourself.

Hands down favorite is JW FLV Player for me. I use it on my site @ www.simplethoughtproductions.com

an example of the play list is:

http://www.crummer.rollins.edu/Alumni_Relations/publications/videonew.shtml

player website:
http://www.jeroenwijering.com/?item=JW_FLV_Player